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We have our ideal self, the self we want out of life; the motivational core that focuses our hopes, aspirations, dreams, purpose, and calling.
It is our source of positive affect that helps the drive for intentional change. This is the self we want to be.
How many of us are close to our ideal self?
We have our actual self or real self and there is our ought self.
Our ought self is our understanding of what others want us to be and do. Actual self is who we are and what we do. The actual self over time, right from childhood, changes.
What happens when our actual self doesn’t match the ideal self? That is when the process of reflection and retrospection begins.
New Year is a formal step to grow, develop and continue the path of learning and an improvement on our-self versus where we were.Yes, this should be a continuous process but I think New Year is a good time to take stock. A time to ask ourselves how close are we to our ideal self. No, this is not about New Year Resolutions.
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